There aren't any concrete rules on
who pays for what. Traditionally,
the majority of the
wedding expenses
have been supported by the bride's
family. However, in today's world
and the increased cost of weddings,
this obligation depends on the
individual situation. Many couples
are opting to share the expenses.
It is best to discuss the subject
with both families in order to work
out the best solution for everyone.
Traditionally, the expenses involved
are paid for by the bride, the
groom, and their families as
follows:
The Bride:
- Wedding ring for the
groom.
- A wedding gift for the
groom.
- Gifts for the bridal
attendants.
- Personal stationery.
- Medical examination and
blood test.
- Accommodations for
out-of-town attendants.
The Groom:
- The bride's engagement
and wedding rings.
- A wedding gift for the
bride.
- Gifts for the best man
and ushers.
- Groom's wedding attire.
- Bride's bouquet and
going away corsage.
- Mothers' corsages
- Boutonnieres for
attendants and fathers.
- Medical examination and
blood test.
- Marriage license.
- Clergyman's fee.
- The honeymoon expenses.
- Bachelor dinner (if not
given by the best man,
optional).
The Bride's Family:
- Engagement party
(optional).
- Ceremony cost: location,
music, rentals, and all
related expenses.
- Entire cost of
reception: food, beverage,
entertainment, rental items,
decorations, wedding cake.
- Bride's wedding attire
and accessories.
- A wedding gift for the
couple.
- Wedding invitations,
announcements, and mailing
costs.
- Bridesmaids' bouquets.
- Transportation for
bridal party from bride's
home to the site of
ceremony.
- Bridesmaids' luncheon.
- Photography (groom's
parents may pay for the
pictures they would like).
- Personal wedding attire.
- Floral decorations.
- Special item they may
wish to purchase: toasting
goblets, ring pillow, etc.
The Groom's Family:
- Rehearsal dinner party.
- Personal wedding attire.
- Travel and
accommodations for groom's
family.
- Wedding gift for the
bride and groom.
- Special item they may
wish to purchase: toasting
goblets, ring pillow, etc.
- Any general expenses
they may wish to contribute.
The Attendants:
- Wedding attire for
themselves.
- Any travel expenses.
- Wedding gift for bride
and groom.
- Showers given by maid of
honor or bridesmaids.
- Bachelor party given by
best man or ushers.
The Bride and Groom:
- Gifts of appreciation
for parents or others who
helped with your wedding.
- Expenses of items
desired which have exceeded
original budget allocations.
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